Victim perspective vs Hero perspective
"It's not fair!"__Anakin Skywalker
Remember this quote? I remember thinking, "What a baby!".
The truth is, it's not always fair.
What sets victims and heroes apart from one another?
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Here are 3 shifts to move towards a hero perspective:
1. ๐๐ค๐ช ๐๐ง๐ ๐ง๐๐๐๐๐ช๐ก๐ค๐ช๐จ๐ก๐ฎ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐ฉ๐ง๐ค๐ก. Victims say they didn't have enough time, they were "unlucky", they just aren't as skilled as that other person. Heros know life doesn't just happen to them, but they can direct the currents of their lives.
2. ๐๐ค๐ช ๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐ค๐ค๐จ๐. Victims say they have no choice. Heros know they always have a choice - even in the direst circumstances. If you don't believe me read about Victor Frankl the holocaust survivor.
3. ๐๐๐๐จ ๐๐จ ๐๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐ ๐จ๐๐๐จ๐ค๐ฃ. Victims look at their current circumstances and believe that they will never change. Heros know that though it might be hard now, it won't be this way forever. This is just a season.
I'm not sure what you're currently experiencing, but...
You're ridiculously in control, you can choose, and this is just a season.
Change your perspective and live out your destiny.
Your Coach,
Dustyn
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